By Mauro Segura
This is a question that has always haunted me. It still does. The roots of the question go even deeper: what do I want to get out of life? This philosophical question should be a question everyone asks. I don’t believe in simply letting life take over, relying completely on destiny, and yet I feel that most people live this way.
My generation was raised with the ideals of a “stable, solid, career” and a “structured family.” A solid career used to mean having a steady job in a good company, with a special focus in your area of expertise. The structured family meant marriage “until death do you apart,” with children. Combine all that with your own house, and you have the equation for perfect happiness. At least that was the life most dreamed of in the past.
Looking at today’s modern dilemmas, I ask myself if the old formula for success still applies.
Certainly, for this new generation, the point of life isn’t the same. Perhaps a huge change has been the feeling of realization and achievement. I’m talking about professional achievement. In this context, “solid careers” and marriages “until death do you apart,” don’t make much sense. Futurologists believe that formal job positions will greatly decrease, not to mention the idea of a traditional marriages. These days, people try being together first, before they even think of marriage. That is, if they ever do.
I believe that the big difference between my generation and this new generation is that we are living to build the future, while Generation Y is living in the present.
My Generation does everything for a better future. The formula of the future in the past was: “solid career” + “structured family” + “home ownership.”
On the other hand, Generation Y’s priority is to live. Of course they envision their future as bright and cool, but they think of a short-term future, not a long-term one. This generation wants to build a future, as long as it’s a near future.
I still wonder what I want to get out of my life. The feeling of realization and achievement are very personal and specific to each person. The feeling of fulfillment often feels like something almost unobtainable, and this creates frustration and inner conflict. On the other hand, every time we achieve something new, we think about our next challenge. Our being thrives on challenges, which quite possibly makes us the unhappiest species on the planet.
We make buying a car a priority in life, followed by owning a house, followed by exotic travels. Our search never ends. We always want more. This new generation seems less preoccupied with conquests, and appears more volatile. Maybe I’m wrong, but wherever I am, they always seem much more preoccupied with their own lives, than in getting the latest Montblanc pen.
Look in the mirror and ask: What is the life you are searching for? What is the purpose of life? What does success mean to you?
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